Blog Update Saturday 6-4-24
Hello everyone , very sorry I am a day late but it has taken me over 24 hours to come to terms with everything and be able to write this Blog , and before I do start I have to say and not be ashamed that I have shed a few tears today , Tears of Relief ,Tears of Joy and Tears of reading and replying to every message I have received in the last 36 hours , Humble and Honoured I have to say ,Thank You all so much π
On the 7th of September 2023 I noticed quite a big lump on the right hand side of my Neck had developed overnight ! obviously concerned I rang my Doctors for an Appointment , non were available for 3 weeks ! so I decided to take myself down to North Manchester General Hospital A & E Which isnt far away from home . This turned out to be one of the Best Decisions I have ever made and the Start of an incredible Journey for me .
A journey that in a Matter of weeks led to X rays , Ultra Sound Scans , MRI scans ,meeting 2 great Consultants and Nursing Staff , an exploratory Operation on my Throat under General Anesthetic (ouch ) and then on the 26 th October those never to be forgotten words " you have a Throat Cancer " , I cringe even writing those words , and I know I had to decide to inform Family and Friends , again not an easy task I can assure you . The way forward was planned with my Oncologist from Christies Mr Hughes of 30 Sessions of Radiotherapy over 6 weeks including Christmas and New Year with the warning still ringing in my Ears ITS GONNA BE TOUGH !!!,. And First Task would be to Have a Mask made that is used to Bolt me to the Machine , nice thought , and it has been a Tough Journey .
On the 20th November I journeyed by Hospital Transport to the Christies Cancer Hospital in Manchester and met the Bloods Team who I would see every Monday for the next 6 weeks to have Blood Samples taken , for my Treatments and also for a Clinical Review that I stupidly volunteered for .That done I found my way to Suite 4 Treatment room and the fantastic Team that worked there where I would be daily for the next 6 weeks !!
So that Treatment finished on the 2 nd of January 2024 and I describe the Period since then as a Black Hole , including a trip back to Christies for a day spent on Drips for 5 hours to re charge my very tired body and discover I had been using the wrong Ointment on my Radiation Burns which were bloody awful and sore , but thankfully with help of fantastic Nursing staff I was pretty soon better.
Then 26th March I go for my long awaited Pet Scan , and become Radioactive for 24 hours to enable the CT scanner to do a whole body Scan on me to detect how successful the Treatments had been a very interesting experience sitting in a Lead Lined room !!
That done it lead on to Yesterday the 5 th April when I again Journey to the Christies , have more Bloods taken then go and Check in at Department 22 then await my fate .
After a while I am taken to a small Examination Room and met for the first time since November by my Oncologist Mr Hughes , after a brief chat he switches on the Computer and we view My Scan which was interesting indeed , this is the Moment I had been praying for he says the Cancer is 100 % Gone !!!! , I cant tell you what that felt Like to me , BUT he said although the Cancer has gone 2 Lymph Nodes have Little shadows on them , he doesnt think its anything serious or Cancer but to be sure he is going to send me for an Ultra Sound Scan ,X RAYS and for some Biopsies taken of the Nodes but says the Shadow may have gone in weeks but he wants to be sure which is good.
So that friends is where we are at ,no Bell ringing yet or Cap Wearing but the Throat Cancer has Gone completely , thank Medicine and Radiotherapy !!
I am not even going to try and explain the ups and downs and the shit I have been through in the last 6 months but I never want to go through it again .I hate to think where I would be without your Support and Input you are amazing People , we are nearly there and I can start trying to re build my Body and Mind , I still have no sense of Smell or Taste and suffer the Dry Mouth which the Doc said should all return eventually no time scale
I will update when the next part starts until then you all take care and God Bless
Tom x
Julie Mason
ReplyDeleteCan't tell you how pleased Iam to hear this news on you Tom. Its bringing some more tears to me reading all this of happiness for you and everything you have gone through over the past 6 months. I want to wish you tons and tons of luck for the next part for you. So onward and upward and sending positive vibes to you. π xx ❤️ π. xx
ReplyDeleteHi Tom, A great blog and one for the history books, I know it isn’t completely over, but it sounds like it is!!, the specialist indicating he does think the shadows are cancer but being on the safe side he’s going to make sure. I’ll speak and see you soon… good to have the old Tom back, not 100% in your mind yet, but I feel your all good to go and start enjoying life again….spring is here, weather will improve, summer just around the corner…π«Άπ«Άπ«Ά
ReplyDeleteAmazing story to read mate,look forward to seeing you and spending time with you and looking back on all the fun times we have had together.
ReplyDeleteNormal service WILL be resumed and Thomas will be back.
#TEAM THOMAS ❤️❤️
Great blog Tom, been a worrying time, for you, family and friends. Stay positive, things are brighter than a week ago, so you have something to smile about at last, I'm so proud of you for the way you've handled this, yes youvyou've had your bad days quite rightly so too, but this is such good news. I'm sure everything will turn out fine with the scan Tom, I'm here, if you need a chat or whatever, love always Tom xxx ❤️
ReplyDeleteWell done mate never doubted you for 1 minute. We were there for the first Bell ringing, and looking forward to you ringing it again. Stay lucky mate and don’t be eating too much chocolate. Take care.
ReplyDeleteWell done team Thom, isn't it amazing what they can do these days now upwards and onwards
ReplyDeleteWhat a journey xx
ReplyDeleteSending ALL of the love and hugs xxx
Pixie π x
Dear Thomas, how eloquent you are as you write your Blog. I know you have had Dark times and I know I just wish I lived nearer to you to have helped you through those dark days. But my very brave second cousin, you are made from some very good and hard Genes, we come from tough stock, these Ashton/Harrison family lines have been through some very tough times. But none as tough as the ones you have just come through. You throat cancer is 100% GONE, and I feel sure that these shadows on your lymph glands will have disappeared by the next time you see Mr Hughes. What incredible people these people are. We all send them our thanks for saving our Thomas. So what now? Onward and Upward for you my boy, you need to rebuild that body and fill your mind and soul with positivity, develop a mantra just for you. Love from Rich and Me along with lots of virtual hugs and kisses. Love you Big Man!!! xxx
ReplyDeleteI must apologise, I missed one very important name, it should have read Ashton/Harrison/SLATTERY, never forgetting your Dad. Lovely man.xxxxx
ReplyDeleteSuch fantastic news Tom , the positive mindset you have shown and your tenacity towards the stain has stood out for everyone to admire.
ReplyDeleteWe will still be talking when you receive you letter from the King wishing you a happy 100th birthday π